Shelter – 2007

Forced to give up his dreams of art school, Zach spends his days working a dead-end job and helping his needy sister care for her son. In his free time he surfs, draws and hangs out with his best friend, Gabe, who lives on the wealthy side of town. When Gabe’s older brother, Shaun, returns home, he is drawn to Zach’s selflessness and talent. Zach falls in love with Shaun while struggling to reconcile his own desires with the needs of his family.

Were the World Mine (2008)

A bullied and demoralized gay student at an all-boys school uses a magical flower derived from Shakespeare’s “A Midsummer Night’s Dream’ to turn many in his community gay, including a comely rugby player for himself.

Latter Days – 2004

A promiscuous gay party animal falls for a young Mormon missionary, leading to crisis, cliché, and catastrophe.

My Own Private Idaho – 1991

Two best friends living on the streets of Portland as hustlers embark on a journey of self discovery and find their relationship stumbling along the way. The two develop a strong friendship that is tested by Scott’s ambivalence to street life and his forthcoming inheritance, as well as Mike’s romantic affection for his companion.

Milk – 2008

The story of Harvey Milk, and his struggles as an American gay activist who fought for gay rights and became California’s first openly gay elected official. Milk was an outspoken gay advocate and politician who was also the first openly gay mayor elected to public office in California. This movie was hugely significant in bringing him recognition for his work in the LGBTQ community today and documents his life, loves and untimely death.

Y Tu Mamá También – 2001

In Mexico City, late teen friends Tenoch Iturbide and Julio Zapata are feeling restless as their respective girlfriends are traveling together through Europe before they all begin the next phase of their lives at college. Enter the beautiful Luisa. The three embark on a road trip of discovery but Luisa is keeping secret and Tenoch and Julio have to figure out what their friendship really means as they grow up. The answer, in-short, is of course a threesome. 

Pride – 2014

U.K. gay activists work to help miners during their lengthy strike of the National Union of Mineworkers in the summer of 1984. 20 year old closeted gay lad Joe hesitantly arrives in London from Bromley for his first Gay Pride march. He is taken under the collective wing of a group of gay men and Lesbian Steph, who congregate at flamboyant Jonathan and his Welsh partner Gethin’s Soho bookshop.

Paris is Burning – 1990

A chronicle of New York’s drag scene in the 1980s, focusing on balls, voguing  and the ambitious dreams of those who gave the era its warmth and vitality. The documentary  observes New York City in the 1980s, and examines the effects of AIDS, homophobia, and violence on the community.

Brokeback Mountain – 2005

The story of a forbidden and secretive relationship between two cowboys, and their lives over the years. This movie is somewhat of an iconic cornerstone in terms of queer cinema, mainly because it featured Hollywood A-Listers and received global media attention. But what perhaps made the film so significant in its time is that the two main characters – Ennis Del Mar (Heath Ledger) and Jack Twist (Jake Gyllenhaal) – do not have the flamboyant personalities which were typically socially associated with homosexuality during its release. In fact, they possess a number of qualities that are considered to be masculine, which helped shatter some of the then stereotypes about gay men. 

The Doom Generation – 1995

Jordan White and Amy Blue, two troubled teens, pick up adolescent drifter Xavier Red. Together, the threesome embark on a sex and violence-filled journey through an America littered psychos and quickie marts. Directed by queer director Gregg Araki, the movie focuses on the growing attraction between main characters Jordan and Xavier against the backdrop of an apocalyptic America. 

Kaboom – 2010

A sexually ‘undeclared’ college freshman’s clairvoyant/prophetic dreams are the first sign that something very strange is going on involving his classmates — with him at the centre. The film was awarded the first ever Queer Palm at the 2010 Cannes Film Festival for its contribution to LGBTQ issues, and features multiple sexually fluid or queer characters. 

Love, Simon – 2018

Love, Simon is not only a good coming of age film, but a touching romantic drama as well. No one knows Simon is gay and he’s been secretly communicating with another gay classmate over the internet, who is also unknown. It becomes a story about identity, empathy and how everyone deals with their true selves differently. 

But I’m a Cheerleader – 1999

A teenager is sent to rehab camp when her straitlaced parents and friends suspect her of being a lesbian. The movie cleverly satirizes the idea of conversion therapy, and follows the characters as they learn to express their sexual identities. 

A Fantastic Woman – 2017

Marina, a transgender woman who works as a waitress and moonlights as a nightclub singer, is bowled over by the death of her older boyfriend. The movie was largely praised for the sensitive, thoughtful way it portrays a transgender woman struggling with loss and helped pave the way for better LGBTQ rights in Chile, where it was written and produced.

Beautiful Thing – 1996

In a suburb of London, young Jamie is escaping school sport hours, to avoid being bullied by his comrades. Young Ste, his neighbour, is beaten by his father and comes to sleep overnight where they discover new feelings sharing the same bed. Written by gay playwright Jonathan Harvey, Beautiful Thing sensitively and heart-warmingly tells the story of a blossoming relationship between two young lads. 

God’s Own Country – 2017

Young farmer Johnny Saxby numbs his daily frustrations with binge drinking and casual sex, until the arrival of a Romanian migrant worker for lambing season ignites an intense relationship that sets Johnny on a new path.

The Birdcage – 1996

With an all-star cast, including Robin Williams and Gene Hackman, The Birdcage details a gay cabaret owner and his drag queen companion, who agree to put up a false straight front so that their son can introduce them to his fiancée’s right-wing moralistic parents. A classic and an absolute hoot! 

Boy Erased – 2018

The son of a Baptist preacher unwillingly participates in a church-supported gay conversion program after being forcibly outed to his parents and forced to take part in a gay conversion therapy program. The film cast includes two Oscar winners: Russell Crowe and Nicole Kidman; and one Oscar nominee: Lucas Hedges, and is based on Garrard Conley’s 2016 memoir of the same name. An absolutely brilliant watch.

Maurice – 1987 (re-released in 2017)

Two male English school chums find themselves falling in love at Cambridge. To regain his place in society, Clive gives up his forbidden love, Maurice (pronounced “Morris”) and marries. After his lover rejects him, Maurice finds himself trapped by the oppressiveness of Edwardian society whilst trying to come to terms with and accept his sexuality.

Moonlight – 2016

The first LGBTQ movie with an all-black cast to win best picture at the Academy Awards. A chronicle of the childhood, adolescence and burgeoning adulthood of a young, African-American, gay man growing up in a rough neighbourhood of Miami. The movie (along with being tremendously good) is significant because, helped by its Oscar win, it brought widespread attention to a story about a queer person of colour into the mainstream. 

We had hundreds of suggestions so couldn’t feature them all, but if we missed your favourite feel free to drop a note in the comments!